Stay Positive in a Toxic Work Environment or Quit?

Selendra Barefield
4 min readJul 15, 2023

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As a professional, one of the most challenging aspects of your job can be the people you work with. While some co-workers can inspire, motivate, and provide support, others can create a toxic workplace environment, impacting your mental health and productivity. In this article, I will provide insights into identifying toxic coworkers and their behaviors, understanding the effects of a toxic workplace environment, and offering tips and strategies for staying positive and productive in such an environment.

Understanding what a toxic workplace environment is

A toxic workplace environment is characterized by a negative, hostile, or abusive atmosphere, making it challenging to work productively. Various factors, including poor communication, a lack of support and feedback, unrealistic expectations, or micromanagement, can cause it. Toxic work environments can also be created by employees who engage in rude, disrespectful, or bullying behaviors toward their co-workers. Such a work environment can significantly impact employees' mental health and well-being, leading to stress, anxiety, and depression.

Identifying toxic coworkers and their behaviors

Toxic coworkers can come in various forms, and it is important to identify them to protect your well-being in the workplace. Some common types of toxic coworkers include the gossip, the complainer, the underminer, the credit hog, and the bully. The gossip is an employee who spreads rumors or shares confidential information about their colleagues, creating mistrust and tension in the workplace. The complainer is always dissatisfied with something and always finds something to complain about, creating a negative atmosphere. The underminer is an employee who undermines their colleague’s work or achievements, creating mistrust and competition. The credit hog is someone who takes credit for the work of others, stealing their recognition and creating resentment. The bully is an employee who intimidates, humiliates, or belittles their colleagues, creating fear and anxiety. Don’t get it twisted; a manager or supervisor could be the problem.

Effects of a toxic workplace on mental health and Productivity

A toxic workplace environment can significantly impact mental health and productivity. Employees who work in a toxic environment are more likely to experience stress, anxiety, and depression, leading to burnout, absenteeism, and poor performance. Toxic coworkers can create a hostile and negative work environment, making collaborating and communicating challenging. This, in turn, can lead to decreased motivation, engagement, and job satisfaction. A toxic workplace environment can spill over into an employee’s personal life, affecting their relationships, health, and overall well-being.

Tips for staying positive and productive in a toxic workplace

Staying positive and productive in a toxic workplace environment can be challenging, but it is not impossible. Here are some tips to help you cope:

Strategies for dealing with toxic coworkers

  • Avoid engaging with toxic coworkers: Don’t feed into their negativity or engage in gossip, complaining, or blaming.
  • Set boundaries: Be clear about what behaviors you are willing to tolerate and what you are not.
  • Stay professional: Maintain a professional demeanor and focus on your work instead of getting involved in department politics.
  • Seek support: Reach out to co-workers who share your values and can offer support and encouragement.

Setting boundaries and taking care of yourself

  • Prioritize self-care: Take care of your physical and mental health by eating well, exercising, and getting enough rest.
  • Practice mindfulness: Engage in mindfulness exercises, such as meditation, to help you stay grounded and centered.
  • Set limits: Learn to say no to additional responsibilities or unreasonable demands that can lead to burnout.

Seeking support and resources

  • Reach out for help: Seek support from a therapist, counselor, or coach who can help you navigate the challenges of a toxic workplace environment.
  • Join a support group: Connect with others who have gone through similar experiences and can offer guidance and support.
  • Consider a change: If the workplace environment is too toxic to handle, consider finding a new job or transferring to a different department.

Communicating with colleagues and supervisors

  • Be assertive: Communicate your needs and expectations clearly and assertively without being aggressive or confrontational.
  • Seek feedback: Ask for feedback from your supervisor and colleagues to help you improve your performance and build positive relationships.
  • Address issues: Address conflicts or issues professionally and respectfully, using non-judgmental language and focusing on finding solutions. Focus on the facts and not your feelings.

Knowing when it’s time to leave a toxic workplace

Sometimes, despite your best efforts, a toxic workplace environment may be too much to handle. It is essential to recognize when it’s time to leave and find a healthier work environment. Here are some signs that it’s time to move on:

  • Your mental health is suffering significantly, and you feel overwhelmed, anxious, or depressed.
  • You have addressed the issues but have yet to see any improvement.
  • You do not feel valued or appreciated for your work, and your contributions are not recognized.
  • The workplace environment is affecting your personal life, relationships, or health.

Conclusion

In summary, working in a toxic workplace environment can be challenging, but managing it is not impossible. Understanding what a toxic workplace environment is, identifying toxic coworkers and their behaviors, and learning tips and strategies for staying positive and productive can help you navigate the challenges of such an environment. Remember to prioritize your well-being and seek support when needed. If all else fails, know when it’s time to move on and find a healthier work environment.

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Selendra Barefield
Selendra Barefield

Written by Selendra Barefield

I have worked in SPD for 11 years. My roles have been, technician, traveler, lead tech, supervisor, educator and recruiter.

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